Well goodbye to 2014.
2014 was a year filled with travel , new adventures , struggles with school and balance, and the loss of my Grandma. December proved to be a whopper of a month. Dad got sick and was hospitalized, found out my sister has a disease, I got the flu and my uncle flew in to visit and help with the mayhem that became the last few weeks of December.
With all that I am very thankful for all the blessings , even with bad news came good things. Traveled to Ecuador and Grandma died while I was there. Got to visit with her and other family members. Got to travel to Scotland with Jules and her stage program who got invited to the FRINGE festival in Scotland. Awesome! Our return with hats!
I have so much to look forward to. I am trying again to learn about balance. I am getting it and cutting back on the things that are not necessary in my life. I am making time for people who are important to me. I am not feeling guilty for letting some things slide.
Let’s face it the hardwood floors will forever need to be swept due to the furry creatures who reside with us.
We lost Anthem in December 2013. We got Bosco in August of 2014 who has proved to be an awesome companion to Jack.
Jules is playing in the baby jazz band at school like I did when I was in high school. It is a cool thing to watch your kid do some of the same things you did(the good things!) when you were in high school.
Resolutions, there are many. Keep on my scheduled workouts, drink more water, be more peaceful. I need to learn not to be negative especially in my own head. Sometimes when I interact with people close to me, I am tempted to vent or think very negative thoughts and be critical, instead of letting it all go. So I guess another resolution this year will be to learn to “let it go”. “It” being negative feelings or reactions to interactions with people. Because in the end as I tell my kids “God did not put you on a deserted island, you are on earth in a suburban setting , you can’t go any direction without finding people” . We need to learn to get along.
“Letting it go” many times is something I have to do when dealing with family members.
I mean we are all different and we don’t all react the same way. I need not to judge the way Simone deals with things just because I would never do what she does. Right?
We made some new traditions and revisited old traditions. When Mom was alive, she would take me as a little girl , then my daughters to see the Nutcracker every Christmas season. She began by taking my oldest when she was a wee three-year old. Even the last year she was with us, she purchased tickets but ended up sending me in her place. My oldest realized she was not doing well and was sad because she had a feeling she was not going to finish out the year. Well , after she passed my sister and I took them once but it was difficult.
This year on a whim I bought three tickets for my daughters and I. It was one of the best Christmas memories of 2014! The three of us went to the Diner for lunch, hung out at the book store for a few, then went to the ballet. It was a lovely Sunday afternoon. Our seats were in the last row. But we had a great view and the girls and I were completely impressed and enjoyed the day. We all thought about Mom and remembered that she instilled in us all the appreciation of ballet and music. ❤
What to look forward to in 2015?
More of the same: school, chores, farm team work, Jules will be graduating High School, spring musicals, possibly some road trips this summer, Pam’s dance competition season is beginning. I hope to make some soap this year and be more organized.
Hoping to stay healthy!
CHEERS!